LOVE MEANS

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LOVE MEANS
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you,
be gentle
with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't
choose to
rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love
him/her, feel
honored that love came and called at your door, but gently
refuse the gift you
cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our
hearts feel the
same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with
you, and then
love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess
blame, let it go.
There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you
can really do
is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.
Feel the way it
fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it
to others who
deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in
anyway you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without
love, they
understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty
places that
will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as
something that flows
to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as
their love cools,
they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be
someone who
generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and
that it can be
made to grow only by giving it away. Remember this, and keep it
to your heart.
Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for
coming and
going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into
saying.
You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it
comes to you.
But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of
your lover,
there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that
it came to
live for a moment in your life.
Life is the first gift, love is the second, and understanding
the third.

"The best and the most beautiful things in the world cannot been
seen or even
touched.They must be felt with heart."